You Feel Me?

It’s crazy when one is trying to understand the other. I mean, you are not the worm in their stomach or their brain, how can you possibly know what one thinks unless you’re a freakin’ mind reader? I doubt the existence anyway. Ability the read body language, yes, but not the mind. Yet, that’s not my point. Everyone is actually a simple person. The only part that makes them complicated, is when they themselves wanna be complicated. But, that’s what being a human is all about. Isn’t?

Like for now, I was actually thinking on, how the hell can guys tend to be so insensitive towards their partners’ feeling? At times when the partner were probably dropping hints (either too-freaking-obvious or you’re-freakin’-blind-if-you-can’t-read-this hints) that they want to show them something that the partner is happy of but yet wanted to give the surprise feel to it, the guy just DON’T bloody get it. This is from a girl point of view. Simple, no? We do not like to be obvious, we like you guys to BE OBSERVANT TO SHOW YOU FREAKIN’ CARE ENOUGH to realize what changed or happened to us. Girls do not trust words. Girls trust only when the guy shows that they notice, not when guy are going after the girl, but keeps the observant mode on till the day death-do-us-part and everything will be happy happy jolly jolly with the girls. Ok, that is my biased side since hey, you can’t blame me since I’m born a female. I’m not entirely biased at the same time

At the same time, because of the whole be-observing-will-you thing from the girls, the guy find it as a pain in the ass and they’d rather like things to be simple and straight forward. Show-and-tell-me-and-stop-making-me-guess-damnit is always there in the end when a relationship goes to more than a year, if you’re lucky, later than that. When the two thoughts clashes, that’s why the guy would always think, why on earth are the females so complicated?! Well, the guy is tired from work, had a beer or two with the buddies after work, came home to look for comfort at home with the family and wife (prolly in bed most of the time, that would be their thoughts) and the guy were given a can-you-see-what-i-did-to-my-hair-today session by the girl (or kids if they were married), a blank look will most likely be given and the bed or TV would be more attractive than the girl is. Be aware ladies!

I guess, this is the most general argument that happens between couples and when they do not discuss but blames each other for not understanding, please get the drain unclogged so that the word relationship can go down there. So girls, why can’t we be straight forward sometimes to give the guys a break and guys, why can’t you be observant sometimes to make us girls know that you care? Everything is so obvious and simple. Why making things hard? You feel me?